Spilling The Gravy
Spilling the Gravy is an unfiltered and heartfelt podcast where a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law team up to break stereotypes and share real stories about family dynamics, Italian-American culture, and navigating in-law relationships. Hosts Antonia and Michele dive into honest conversations about boundaries, cultural identity, and the challenges of blending old-school traditions with modern family life. No topic is off-limits if it’s real, relatable, and worth talking about, we’re all in. If you're looking for raw, relatable discussions on surviving family drama, embracing cultural roots, and celebrating the messy beauty of family, this podcast is your go-to source for laughs, healing, and real talk.
Episodes

Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
“In this episode of Spilling the Gravy, we start with the latest on Savannah Guthrie’s missing mom, Nancy Guthrie, then dive into the weirdest AI questions trending online — like whether AI will take over humanity. From there, we explore color theory rabbit holes, internet pattern obsession, alien conspiracies, and finish with grounded Italian family wisdom on handling mystery. If you love rabbit holes, trending news, and cultural commentary, this episode is for you!”

Tuesday Feb 10, 2026
Tuesday Feb 10, 2026
Is Valentine’s Day meaningful… or just another Hallmark holiday? 💘In Episode 19 of Spilling the Gravy, a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get real about love, relationships, and what actually makes them work.
We unpack:• Valentine’s Day & Hallmark holidays• Expectations vs reality in marriage• What movies get wrong about love• Conflict, communication & stress• Lessons from a first marriage• How to know when someone is “the one”• Red flags vs green flags• Why peace matters more than passion• Valentine’s Day around the world (with a focus on Italy 🇮🇹)• A Love Language game listeners can play along with
This episode is for anyone who:✔️ Feels pressure around Valentine’s Day✔️ Wants real relationship advice✔️ Is curious about love languages✔️ Is navigating marriage or long-term love✔️ Wants honest conversations about relationships
Listener questions:Do you celebrate Valentine’s Day?How did you know your person was “the one”?What’s your love language?
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Tuesday Feb 03, 2026
Tuesday Feb 03, 2026
In this episode of Spilling the Gravy, we explore how sports shape everyday family life — from Super Bowl Sunday traditions and lifelong Dallas Cowboys fandom to living with sports fans and Olympic debates.
With stories from Dad, Evan, and Ryan, we talk about how Cowboys fandom became a family identity, what it’s like living in a house divided between sports lovers and non-fans, and how the Olympics turn everyone into a sports expert for two weeks.
We also play a rapid-fire family sports game, answering questions about favorite athletes, Olympic sports, NASCAR tracks, and building the ultimate New York Rangers lineup.
In this episode, we cover: Super Bowl family traditions 🏈 Dallas Cowboys fan legacy ⭐ Living with sports fans: girls vs boys 🏠 How sports bring families together 💬 Olympics discussion and favorite sports 🌍 Family sports game and debates 🎮 New York Rangers all-time lineup 🏒
💬 Listener Prompt: Did sports play a major role in your family growing up? What game or moment defined your childhood?

Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
Ever wondered what it’s really like dating into a big, loud Italian family? Today on Spilling the Gravy, we’re kicking off a huge milestone: our first-ever guest! Mackenzie, Ryan’s high school sweetheart, joins us to spill all the tea about joining the family.
From meeting the Italian mom for the first time to navigating mama’s boy moments, family chaos, and quirky traditions, Mackenzie shares the highs, the laughs, and the surprises of being part of the family. Plus, she reveals how Antonia has guided her as the first girlfriend in the family and what it’s really like growing up together with your partner.
We also dive into:
Mama’s boy moments — sweet, funny, or chaotic
Dating your high school sweetheart: luck, challenges, and reality
The quirks and charms of Italian family life
Rapid-fire fun: funniest moments, rules learned, and insider stories
💬Have you ever dated a mama’s boy? Or been the first girlfriend in a big family? Tell us your story!

Tuesday Jan 20, 2026
Tuesday Jan 20, 2026
Episode 16 of Spilling the Gravy premieres January 20 and kicks off award season with a full Golden Globes recap. We break down Nikki Glaser as host, Justin Sylvester’s red carpet coverage, award show favoritism, and play-by-play announcer chaos. Plus, we talk celebrities bringing family to award shows, Golden Globes fashion trends, and why everyone in Hollywood is suddenly calling their significant other a “partner.” We also preview what’s coming next with the Oscars and Grammys.
What You’ll Get:
Golden Globes recap & award season drama 🏆
Nikki Glaser hosting hot takes 🎤
Celebrity family dates at award shows 👨👩👧
Partner vs boyfriend/girlfriend discourse 💑
Golden Globes fashion & upcoming award shows 👗

Tuesday Jan 13, 2026
Tuesday Jan 13, 2026
It’s mid-January, and the holiday chaos is still lingering… along with those New Year’s resolutions we swore we’d stick to. In this episode of Spilling the Gravy, we dive into guilty pleasures we can’t quit, the realities of Dry January, and the hilarity of family judging every choice we make. Plus, we rank all 12 months of the year and debate which ones are the most indulgent, productive, or just plain chaotic.
Laugh with us as we celebrate the wins, fails, and messy truths of post-holiday life — because mid-January is hard, but we’re all in it together.
What you’ll get:
Mid-January guilty pleasures & healthy swap experiments 🍫
Dry January struggles: is it worth it? 🍹
Family drama over resolutions — who’s the real AITA? 👀
Month rankings & chaotic debates about productivity vs indulgence 📅
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Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
New Year’s Eve chaos meets January reality.In this episode of Spilling the Gravy, we debrief the aftermath of New Year’s Eve — from party cleanup and Italian family commentary to realistic resolutions we might actually keep.
We talk New Year’s goals vs. reality, broken resolutions, and the awkward shift from midnight kisses to January texting. Plus, we play a dating game about who you accidentally start a relationship with in the new year and break down an AITA story about ghosting a New Year’s Eve hookup.
If you’ve ever questioned your resolutions, ignored a text in January, or felt overwhelmed by family opinions after the holidays, this episode is for you.
Topics covered:
New Year’s Eve dating and January regrets
Realistic New Year’s resolutions
Ghosting after holiday hookups
Italian family parties
AITA relationship dilemmas
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Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Italian Christmas cookies, holiday traditions, and what really matters during Christmas week.
In this episode of Spilling the Gravy, Michele and Antonia dive into the traditions that anchor the holidays — from Michele’s Italian Christmas cookie baking marathon and Grammy’s Christmas cake, to America’s top 5 Christmas cookies.
They talk honestly about why certain traditions carry so much meaning, how baking becomes a form of connection, and the invisible work moms do to make Christmas happen. If you’re feeling overwhelmed during Christmas week, this episode is a reminder that presence matters more than perfection.
Whether you love Italian-American holiday traditions, baking Christmas cookies, or navigating family dynamics during the holidays, this conversation will help you slow down, reset expectations, and enjoy the season with a little less stress.
🎄 Topics include:• Italian Christmas cookies & holiday baking traditions• America’s top 5 Christmas cookies• Moms at Christmas & invisible emotional labor• Letting go of holiday pressure• What people actually remember about Christmas

Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Italian Christmas Gifting: Chaos, Traditions & Gift Hacks
Get ready for the most relatable holiday episode yet! 🎄🤌This week we’re diving into the hilarious, chaotic, and deeply sentimental world of Italian Christmas gifting. From the unforgettable childhood presents we grew up with, to big-family gift exchanges, to the pressure of finding the “perfect” gift we’re unpacking the traditions, the drama, and the joy behind it all.
We’re sharing:🎁 Italian Christmas traditions & gifting habits😂 Chaotic gift mix-ups and last-minute shopping stories🔥 Hot takes on re-gifting, budgets, gift cards & more😳 A wild MIL gifting story you won’t believe✨ Simple holiday hacks to reduce stress and bring back the joy
If you love Italian family culture, holiday nostalgia, or just need a laugh during the gifting season, this episode will feel like home.
Follow, rate, and share to help support the show and send us your most chaotic holiday gifting stories for next week’s episode!
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Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
In this episode of Spilling the Gravy, we’re diving into the hilariously chaotic and deeply sentimental world of Italian Christmas traditions — the food, the family rituals, the expectations, and the generational quirks that make the holidays unforgettable.
From childhood traditions we kept (or gladly retired) to the wildly chaotic Calendrillo Christmas Eve, this episode is packed with nostalgia, storytime, and the unfiltered truth about what Italian families are really like during the holidays.
We’re unpacking:🇮🇹 The Italian Christmas traditions we grew up with🎄 Tree Day, Decorating Night & pre-Christmas rituals🍝 The chaos of Calendrillo Christmas Eve🎁 Gift exchange games, family roles & the yearly meltdown🔥 Holiday Hot Takes — Keep It, Toss It, or Upgrade It?🧦 Matching pajamas, Midnight Mass, Panettone, Secret Santa & more🧝 The “Elf on the Shelf Effect” — cute or chaotic?🍽️ A holiday AITA involving two lasagnas and one very territorial home cook
If you love holiday traditions, Italian culture, family chaos, and relatable holiday humor, this episode will make you feel right at home.
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